☯️Taoist proverb: All things going against your wishes are secretly protected by Heaven. No matter how meticulous your calculations, you can't defy the laws of nature. Many opportunities you can't obtain, and relationships that don't come to fruition, aren't because you're not good enough, but because fate is quietly shielding you from disaster and hardship. Doing your best and leaving the rest to fate doesn't mean giving up and accepting your fate. It means giving your all, then calmly accepting the outcome and ceasing to dwell on it.