When I got older, I realized:

1. Don’t buy a house. Rent one if you don’t have one.

2. In today's society, even if you have a little savings, whether it is 30,000 or 50,000 yuan, or even 100,000 yuan, as long as you have it, no matter how much, you can be considered a sober person.

3. After retirement, do not return to your original workplace unless necessary. The most respectable thing after retirement is to leave your workplace quietly without causing any trouble to your company or colleagues, and learn to let go of your workplace.

4. Never stay in your daughter’s home for too long.

5. Don’t live with your children who have already started their own families. Living together for too long can easily lead to conflicts.

6. Don’t travel with relatives, for fear of regret.

7. Those who look down on you are all your relatives.

8. Stop for three seconds before closing the door and check on your keys, cell phone, tissues and ID card.

9. Don’t refuse the money given by your children. Just take it.

10. Only when I grow old do I realize that my father is not as good as the mountains and my mother is not as good as the water.

​11. Laziness at the age of 25 will cause anxiety at the age of 35.

12. Drinking makes you lose friends;

13. Stay away from other opposite sex, even at this age.

14. What you can do is never as good as what you can say.

15. If you have grandchildren, don’t take care of your grandchildren, as your daughter-in-law will hold a grudge against you.

​16. The quality of life is different with or without a pension.

17. A simple life is the happiest. Don’t pursue too many material things.

18. If you are lazy at the age of 20, you will have to pay for it at the age of 60.

19. Do not sit or lie down for long periods of time; do some exercise.

20. Without a healthy body, you lose everything.

21. Yesterday is getting more and more, and tomorrow is getting less and less.

22. Don’t talk about your daughter’s good points in front of your daughter-in-law. She will either feel that you are being sarcastic or make a comparison.

23. When someone suddenly disappears from your life, your best friend becomes a stranger, and your loved one leaves you, don't ask why. Anyone who can leave you is not destined to be with you. Just let it go! Don't hold a grudge! If a relationship ends suddenly, it proves that your destiny has begun to change.

24. A person who is diligent with his hands will never be as good as a person who is sweet with his mouth.

25. It is better to rely on medical insurance and social security than to rely on children for retirement.

26. Fish will go bad after three days of being left out, and guests will complain after three days of staying with them.

27. Don’t be too frugal with yourself. Eat when you need to, drink when you need to. You can’t take your money with you when you die.

28. A company is not a place to make friends.

29. The so-called threshold is a door if you have enough ability, and a threshold if you don’t have enough ability.

30. Don’t be angry with your children. When a child is reborn into your family, whether it is to repay a favor, to seek revenge, to collect a debt, or to repay a debt, this relationship contains the connection between past and present lives.

31. Be low-key in front of acquaintances.

32. If your pension is not high, don’t visit relatives too often, otherwise you will feel disappointed.

33. Even if you are heartbroken, don't show your sadness to others.

34. Don’t spend the money you saved in the first half of your life easily. You don’t know what this money means to you until the last moment.

35. When you visit a friend's house, no matter how good your friend is, you should bring a gift, even if it's just a few pounds of fruit. Your friend won't mind if you don't bring a gift, but his family will.

36. Get up slowly and develop a habit of drinking a cup of warm water in the morning.

37. No matter how close your relatives are, they should have less contact with each other; no matter how good your friends are, they should not gather wealth.

38. Lower your expectations for your son, and the elderly will be more open-minded about many things.

39. Keep a kind heart, do more good deeds, and accumulate blessings.

40. Don’t rely too much on others. Learn to be independent and take care of yourself.

41. Don’t seek coolness in the summer and use the air conditioner less often. In the winter, keep warm by wearing more clothes and trousers and covering yourself with more quilts.

42. My son is unreliable, so I can only rely on my daughter-in-law. So I must have a good relationship with my daughter-in-law.

43. Face is not important. You can feel at ease only when you can take it and let it go.

44. Even if you are over 50, you must have a fighting spirit. Even if you fail, your children will respect you.

45. When it comes to treating your children, don’t try to treat them equally. Be partial to the better child so as not to disappoint the filial sons.

46. ​​You don’t spend your whole life to make money. Many people can make a lot of money in just two or three years. If you encounter this situation, tell yourself not to rest.

47. When people get old, no matter how good their relationship with their children is, they must understand the "Crow Law".

48. Be cautious when traveling far away from home. Traveling is tiring and your body may not be able to handle it.

49. It is difficult for ordinary people to find a good job.

50. Selfish people usually live well.

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