Let me tell you the truth about love tribulations: An unstable marriage palace means even your destined partner must first pass through a hurdle. Having observed marriages for over twenty years, I've seen too many couples like this: they believed it was fate when they married, but within a few years, they were like enemies—he comes home silent, you open your mouth and you argue, a river seems to separate you from the same bed. You want a divorce, but the children are still young; you want to endure, but the thorn in your heart only grows deeper. This isn't because you chose the wrong person; it's because even a destined partner must first pass through the "hurdle of love tribulations" before landing. Heaven won't give you a lifelong marriage for nothing; it always lets you taste the bitterness of betrayal, the pain of cold war, and the exhaustion of self-doubt. An extramarital affair? That's the knife in the hurdle, not cutting through fate, but cutting the lingering naiveté in your heart. True couples don't avoid tribulations, but overcome them together. If he chooses someone else during the tribulation, it's because he couldn't pass the test and doesn't deserve your sincere heart; if you grit your teeth, see clearly, and let go, then you've passed this hurdle. Once you've weathered the emotional storm, your true destiny begins—and then, your companionship won't rely on sweet words, but on cherishing the memories of surviving a calamity. If you're currently stuck at a crossroads, unable to leave or overcome it, unsure whether the person before you is a calamity or a destiny, feel free to leave your birth date, and I'll help you see how far you still have to go in this hurdle.