A few days ago, a client named Xiao Kai messaged me privately, his voice filled with anxiety. He had been chatting with a girl for over three months, exchanging good morning and good night messages every day, sharing food, music, and small joys in life. He felt a strong sense of ambiguity was spreading between them, so he meticulously planned a grand confession: he bought flowers, booked a restaurant, and prepared a long string of heartfelt words. However, the girl froze on the spot, stammering, "I...I'm not ready yet. Isn't this good enough for us?" Xiao Kai was bewildered and asked me, "Does she even like me? If she doesn't, why does she chat with me every day? If she does, why won't she accept my confession?" If you, like Xiao Kai, are also experiencing a bottleneck in your relationship, click on my profile picture to message me privately for plenty of solutions to your relationship problems.